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Dang it! I Just Found Out Something About Myself That I Don’t Like!
By JLP | August 17, 2006
Have you ever been reading a book and you come to a part that you swear is talking about you? I had one of those experiences earlier tonight and it wasn’t good! Actually, it was good because it showed me the error of my ways, which will help me grow to be a better person (if I actually change).
The passage I’m talking about is in Stephen Covey’s The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People in the chapter about the 4th Habit: Think Win/Win. In that chapter, Covey talks about the Abundance vs. Scarcity Mentality. A person who possesses the Abundance Mentality is a person who believes that there is plenty out there for everybody.
Now, here’s what he has to say about the Scarcity Mentality:
“People with the Scarcity Mentality have a very difficult time sharing recognition and credit, power or profit - even with those who help in the production [not a description of me]. They also have a very hard time being genuinely happy for the successes of other people - even, and sometimes especially, members of their own family or close friends and associates. It’s almost as if something is being taken from them when someone else receives special recognition or windfall gain or has remarkable success or achievement.”
Yeah, I hate to admit it, but the last part of that statement reminded me of ME! Pretty pathetic, isn’t it? Actually, my wife tells me it is due to the fact that I am a very competitive person. I think she may be right. Hey, I’m not perfect (read number 26 in “100 Things About JLP“).
Topics: Personal Growth |
