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	<title>Comments on: How Do You Turn Away Cold Calls From Charities?</title>
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		<title>By: Curtis</title>
		<link>http://allfinancialmatters.com/2008/05/08/how-do-you-turn-away-cold-calls-from-charities/comment-page-1/#comment-317985</link>
		<dc:creator>Curtis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2008 02:17:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If they give me a chance to speak, I say, &quot;Sorry, but we already have several charities we give to.&quot; However, more often than not they are just as bad as telemarketers and tend to drone on. I wait long enough to see if it sounds like they are going to at least ask if I have time to talk. After about 10 seconds or so, though, if they haven&#039;t paused long enough for me to get a word in edgewise, I just hang up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If they give me a chance to speak, I say, &#8220;Sorry, but we already have several charities we give to.&#8221; However, more often than not they are just as bad as telemarketers and tend to drone on. I wait long enough to see if it sounds like they are going to at least ask if I have time to talk. After about 10 seconds or so, though, if they haven&#8217;t paused long enough for me to get a word in edgewise, I just hang up.</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 21:31:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The key here is &quot;feeling guilty.&quot; Guilt is only a state of mind and we initiate it ourselves and waste a lot of time doing so. You have a plan for your life, you stick to it, and nobody is going to steer you off the path. Why feel guilty about that?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The key here is &#8220;feeling guilty.&#8221; Guilt is only a state of mind and we initiate it ourselves and waste a lot of time doing so. You have a plan for your life, you stick to it, and nobody is going to steer you off the path. Why feel guilty about that?</p>
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		<title>By: Shorty</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shorty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2008 16:59:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m totally with Wilson and Kin...we don&#039;t pick up any calls that we don&#039;t recognize (and even some that we *do* recognize, if we don&#039;t feel like talking :-).  Just because the phone rings doesn&#039;t mean we have to pick it up.  Our friends and relatives know we do this, and if we don&#039;t recognize the number, and we hear a familiar voice starting to leave a message, we&#039;ll then pick it up.  

Probably the worst case is the local volunteer fire department coming to our door.  My wife felt compelled to give to them last year, so they came again this year.  I said no, and he seemed very disappointed, clearly writing something in big letters next to our address on his clipboard.  Makes one wonder if they&#039;ll fight a fire at our address?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m totally with Wilson and Kin&#8230;we don&#8217;t pick up any calls that we don&#8217;t recognize (and even some that we *do* recognize, if we don&#8217;t feel like talking <img src='http://allfinancialmatters.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> .  Just because the phone rings doesn&#8217;t mean we have to pick it up.  Our friends and relatives know we do this, and if we don&#8217;t recognize the number, and we hear a familiar voice starting to leave a message, we&#8217;ll then pick it up.  </p>
<p>Probably the worst case is the local volunteer fire department coming to our door.  My wife felt compelled to give to them last year, so they came again this year.  I said no, and he seemed very disappointed, clearly writing something in big letters next to our address on his clipboard.  Makes one wonder if they&#8217;ll fight a fire at our address?</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2008 17:03:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you already give to charity, then I would&#039;nt feel guilty at all.  Why should we support invasive marketing techniques like cold calling, soliciting, spam etc.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you already give to charity, then I would&#8217;nt feel guilty at all.  Why should we support invasive marketing techniques like cold calling, soliciting, spam etc.</p>
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		<title>By: Ricardo Bueno</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ricardo Bueno</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2008 08:10:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Trent Hamm over at The Simple Dollar said: &quot;&#039;Every time you say “yes” outside of your plan, you let down something you care about even more. Once you really learn that, “no” becomes a much easier thing to say.&#039;&quot;

I feel guilty turning down contributions towards certain causes sometimes too, but when you think about it the way Trent phrased it, saying &quot;no&quot; doesn&#039;t feel so rough. It&#039;s not that they&#039;re bad causes, but it&#039;s like you said, you already have other commitments.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trent Hamm over at The Simple Dollar said: &#8220;&#8216;Every time you say “yes” outside of your plan, you let down something you care about even more. Once you really learn that, “no” becomes a much easier thing to say.&#8217;&#8221;</p>
<p>I feel guilty turning down contributions towards certain causes sometimes too, but when you think about it the way Trent phrased it, saying &#8220;no&#8221; doesn&#8217;t feel so rough. It&#8217;s not that they&#8217;re bad causes, but it&#8217;s like you said, you already have other commitments.</p>
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		<title>By: Seth</title>
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		<dc:creator>Seth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 23:20:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why on earth should you feel guilty?  These people are calling you without your explicit permission, potentially wasting your time and cellphone minutes.  If anything they should feel guilty for calling you.  If their feelings are hurt by being turned down then they should go find another job.  The best method is to quickly and politely say &quot;Thanks but I am not interested and would like to be removed from your marketing/calling/mailing list&quot; so that they can get on with finding a yes from someone else.  I also don&#039;t ask them to send me anything because I don&#039;t want them to waste time/money sending me something to throw away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why on earth should you feel guilty?  These people are calling you without your explicit permission, potentially wasting your time and cellphone minutes.  If anything they should feel guilty for calling you.  If their feelings are hurt by being turned down then they should go find another job.  The best method is to quickly and politely say &#8220;Thanks but I am not interested and would like to be removed from your marketing/calling/mailing list&#8221; so that they can get on with finding a yes from someone else.  I also don&#8217;t ask them to send me anything because I don&#8217;t want them to waste time/money sending me something to throw away.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeremy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeremy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 16:04:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I solved the problem (and many more) but dropping our landline. Now with just a mobile phone, I only answer if the number comes up as recognized, and if not, it goes to voicemail. If it is important, they will leave a message.

Of course, I rarely use a personal phone as it is. The way I see it, if I want to talk to someone, I&#039;ll call them. My phone usage last month was about 42 minutes. most of which came from weekly calls to my parents, and to/from my wife. 

Of course, the charities we do contribute to are relentless in sending their crap in the mail as well. Every few months it seems like they have some sort of reminder about how it is time to donate again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I solved the problem (and many more) but dropping our landline. Now with just a mobile phone, I only answer if the number comes up as recognized, and if not, it goes to voicemail. If it is important, they will leave a message.</p>
<p>Of course, I rarely use a personal phone as it is. The way I see it, if I want to talk to someone, I&#8217;ll call them. My phone usage last month was about 42 minutes. most of which came from weekly calls to my parents, and to/from my wife. </p>
<p>Of course, the charities we do contribute to are relentless in sending their crap in the mail as well. Every few months it seems like they have some sort of reminder about how it is time to donate again.</p>
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		<title>By: JimmyDaGeek</title>
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		<dc:creator>JimmyDaGeek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 13:12:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a list of charities I contribute to on my own every year. It drives me crazy when they send solicitations to me using my money.

If I get a call from a charity I never heard of, I ask them to send information to me. I never make a contribution on the phone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a list of charities I contribute to on my own every year. It drives me crazy when they send solicitations to me using my money.</p>
<p>If I get a call from a charity I never heard of, I ask them to send information to me. I never make a contribution on the phone.</p>
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 13:05:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>During a more desperate time, I was a cold caller for an organization that raised money for law enforcement organizations like the Fraternal Order of Police.  Very little of the money received went to the organization itself.  The highest rate was 18%.  What the callers were doing for a living was convincing people to give up $25 so that the organization could get $3.75.  That&#039;s my most personal reason.

There are many reasons not to, however.

1.  Risk of theft of identity or financial/personal information.  You don&#039;t know if the organization is who they say they are.

2.  Charity budget should be decided on in advance.  I figure out which charities I&#039;m supporting every year and save money aside for this purpose.  Except for some additional giving to my church and people I know who are in need.

3.  You shouldn&#039;t make financial decisions under pressure and without taking time to research.  You wouldn&#039;t buy a cell phone plan after listening only to the sales rep, whose sales goals may conflict with what&#039;s best for you and the organization.

4.  Telemarketing is annoying, regardless of the cause.  Don&#039;t encourage them.  The Internet is huge and it&#039;s easy to find organizations and easier than ever to network with people locally to help.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>During a more desperate time, I was a cold caller for an organization that raised money for law enforcement organizations like the Fraternal Order of Police.  Very little of the money received went to the organization itself.  The highest rate was 18%.  What the callers were doing for a living was convincing people to give up $25 so that the organization could get $3.75.  That&#8217;s my most personal reason.</p>
<p>There are many reasons not to, however.</p>
<p>1.  Risk of theft of identity or financial/personal information.  You don&#8217;t know if the organization is who they say they are.</p>
<p>2.  Charity budget should be decided on in advance.  I figure out which charities I&#8217;m supporting every year and save money aside for this purpose.  Except for some additional giving to my church and people I know who are in need.</p>
<p>3.  You shouldn&#8217;t make financial decisions under pressure and without taking time to research.  You wouldn&#8217;t buy a cell phone plan after listening only to the sales rep, whose sales goals may conflict with what&#8217;s best for you and the organization.</p>
<p>4.  Telemarketing is annoying, regardless of the cause.  Don&#8217;t encourage them.  The Internet is huge and it&#8217;s easy to find organizations and easier than ever to network with people locally to help.</p>
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		<title>By: Kin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 11:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do a varied combination of the above.

On my mobile I don&#039;t answer private numbers. I don&#039;t usually answer our landline at all. And if I do, and there&#039;s no one there immediately I hang up straight away. If they start talking I say &quot;we give monthly to several charities of our choice.&quot; and hang up. Of course mostly they call selling raffle tickets which annoys me no end. From a purely economical standpoint I can&#039;t deduct those &quot;tickets&quot;. I would also much rather donate in a way that doesn&#039;t need those overheads. 

Plus I do my fair share of charity work, raising donations and giving myself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do a varied combination of the above.</p>
<p>On my mobile I don&#8217;t answer private numbers. I don&#8217;t usually answer our landline at all. And if I do, and there&#8217;s no one there immediately I hang up straight away. If they start talking I say &#8220;we give monthly to several charities of our choice.&#8221; and hang up. Of course mostly they call selling raffle tickets which annoys me no end. From a purely economical standpoint I can&#8217;t deduct those &#8220;tickets&#8221;. I would also much rather donate in a way that doesn&#8217;t need those overheads. </p>
<p>Plus I do my fair share of charity work, raising donations and giving myself.</p>
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