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Being Grateful Even Now
By Meg | December 4, 2008
There is so much bad news floating around, so much to be worried or angry or upset about in the world. However there is a lot to be grateful for as well, so I thought I would take a moment and count a few blessings. This may be a bit late, considering Thanksgiving was a week ago, but I suppose it is never a bad time to be grateful.
A few quotes on the subject I have read recently:
“Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.” - Unknown (to me)
“To be grateful is to recognize the love of God in everything He has given us-and He has given us everything.”-Thomas Merton
Now you may not be religious, but that last quote really struck me when I read it. It reminds me to take the bad with the good, and to appreciate it. It might seem wrong or even stupid to try to appreciate what seems unfair, bad, or even evil, but it is possible - and important. We can learn and grow and change for the better as a result of every experience - be it sickness, recession, job loss, or even death.
I once overheard my mother say that having cancer was a huge blessing. I recoiled, but she explained that it brought our family closer together and made her realize her inner strength. Remembering that comment has always kept me in check when I find myself whining or self-pitying.
Things for which I am grateful:
- Having a job and a regular paycheck; not everyone does right now.
- Not having to worry about where I’ll get my next meal or bath.
- Having the means and time to give to others who need support.
- A large family which supports and uplifts me.
- The freedom and ability to learn and pursue whatever I choose.
Many in our country are struggling, some for the first time, as our economy sags and companies lay people off and wages stagnate. Of course we are all still much better off than many in the world, but is still natural and easy to worry, to complain, to be angry and even scared.
But struggles can bring us together, and they can encourage us remember what’s really important - what matters a lot more than the 401k balance or the big bonus check. I hope as this volatile year comes to an end that we can all find some things to be truly grateful for.
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December 4th, 2008 at 2:45 pm
Great post, Meg
It’s easy to lose sight of these important things and a reminder now and then helps.
December 4th, 2008 at 3:22 pm
Well said!
December 6th, 2008 at 11:10 pm
Wow! I was just thinking this today and then found this blog entry. I hope many more people find this. I’m grateful that even though I’m deeply in debt that my DH and I still both have jobs and were able to buy our yearly gift for a child in need and hope we will continue to be able to do so. Maybe next year we can do 2 children.