<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
	>

<channel>
	<title>AllFinancialMatters &#187; Parenting</title>
	<atom:link href="http://allfinancialmatters.com/category/parenting/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://allfinancialmatters.com</link>
	<description>A personal finance blog dedicated to discussing such topics as budgeting, asset allocation, 401K, IRA, cash flow, insurance, financial planning, portfolio management, and other areas in personal finance.</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 15:58:54 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=abc</generator>
	<language>en</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
			<item>
		<title>Question of the Day &#8211; Kids and Chores</title>
		<link>http://allfinancialmatters.com/2008/12/29/question-of-the-day-kids-and-chores/</link>
		<comments>http://allfinancialmatters.com/2008/12/29/question-of-the-day-kids-and-chores/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2008 20:20:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>JLP</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Kids and Chores]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://allfinancialmatters.com/?p=3055</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Okay, here&#8217;s today&#8217;s question of the day:
How much of a stickler for details are you when your kids do a chore?
I ask this because I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m expecting too much of my kids.
Here&#8217;s the way things usually play out:
The boys are supposed to do their chores.  They know what chores they are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, here&#8217;s today&#8217;s question of the day:</p>
<p><strong>How much of a stickler for details are you when your kids do a chore?</strong></p>
<p>I ask this because I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m expecting too much of my kids.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the way things usually play out:</p>
<p>The boys are supposed to do their chores.  They know what chores they are supposed to do&#8212;there are no surprises and yet I have to remind them.  Anyway, they have been shown how to do the chore properly.  However, they still try to do a 30-minute job in 5 minutes and then get all bent-out-of-shape when I point out all the stuff they missed or did half-ass.</p>
<p>So, to &#8220;solve&#8221; my problem, I wrote out step-by-step instructions on how to clean the bathroom.  This way the expectations are fully explained, so there are no excuses.  If this doesn&#8217;t seem to work, I&#8217;m going to turn it into a checklist that they have to check off as they complete the chore.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ll see if this works.  I gotta do something different.  I keep doing the same things over and over again but expect different results.  Something&#8217;s gotta change!</p>
<p>Why is this important?  Because there is a right and a wrong way to do things (the bathroom is either clean or it is not).  I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;m being unreasonable in expecting them to do the job correctly.  Maybe I&#8217;m at fault for not explaining my expectations clearly.  Someday they will be working for an employer and knowing how to do the job right will be important.</p>
<p>Thoughts?  Would you like me to post my step-by-step instructions?  </p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://allfinancialmatters.com/2008/12/29/question-of-the-day-kids-and-chores/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>13</slash:comments>
		</item>
	</channel>
</rss>
